What is FATE?

How many peoples in this world really know what is FATE?("Mang Sui in cantonese"). FATE is just a opportunity for us and FATE doesn't mean what already set by god. I still remember all among my friends, some really believe that, thief life was really being set by god while we can't change it.. This is wrong. We can change our fate. As I said, fate is just a opportunity.. Why people born in rich family and why we in normal family? The answer is very easy. People who born in rich family, and he doesn't appreciate it, they can become poor in future. While we in normal family, we still can managed to become a rich person in the future. In a people life, the important thing is HARDWORKING.. If the person not hardworking enough, i believe he won't get rich in the future. For those who in rich now, they won't know what a poor family feel. Just like who have some money, what they said also different.. Cause got money ma.. We no money, mai just heard what got money people said lor. In this world is like this, who got money who is the biggest one. But for me, money doesn't mean for everything. Although you have 6 million dollar, but it useless if you don't have health. In this world really got alot of funny people.. One is very rich and one is act to be rich. I use on the road to be example. Just like a person driving 7 series BMW, they always give way to people or when people overtake them, there have no reaction. But for those to act in rich, driving a estima and you tailgate him, he wont give way. Once you overtake him, he will looked like wanna eat you up. This is what act rich people do.
Why today I was talking about grandmother story about FATE? Because one of my friend was in unlucky time. Last time, he used to be rich.. While we studying form 5, he already driving a Honda EG..That time me just using bus 11. When I got my license, he already driving a honda city. When i had my first iswara, he driving a new honda civic liao. yes. He is from a rich family member cause his dad was a success business man. My friend each month can spend RM10k. Can you imagine how rich is his family? Once he had money, I dun even see him save money. Always used up all the money. As i said, now got money, they won't know when no money that time. So really unlucky that his dad get bad in business.. All car being tow by bank. House being sell off.. Luckily his parent got keep a condominium and now they shift back to there. Maid had been force to fire cause no money. Today we come out have a chat and he feel regret. He said why he won't know the word POOR last time. He should save money since last time. But nothing he can do now. So now he started to work for himself. I know he can stand up again. For a man, fall down once it not a problem. We still can stand up and continue to walk again. Now he just driving a kelisa. Anyway, it still lucky that you got a car and a house for you all to stay. And and.. Still got one thing. A man who scare for wife, will get rich very fast.. =P